1·I had imagined everyone to be friendly working together and having fun.
我曾想象每个人都很友好，一起工作，一起玩乐。
2·As children grow up, they can center their life on what other people think (peer pressure), sports, school, family, career, having fun, money, or collecting things.
随着孩子一天天长大，他们可以把生活的中心放在其他人的想法(同辈压力)、体育、学校、家庭、事业、玩乐、金钱或收藏上。
3·At that point, all our excuses for self-centeredness will sound hollow: "I was too busy," or "I had my own goals," or "I was preoccupied with working, having fun, or preparing for retirement."
那时，为自我中心而辩解的声音如此苍白无力：“我太忙了，”或是“我有自己的人生目标，”又或者“我正忙着工作，玩乐，或者准备退休。”
4·Sometimes not talking - and not locking horns, but rather laughing and having fun - paves the way to the best possible answer later.
有时候，不说话，不锁定死角，而只是笑着玩乐着，这些可以为之后可能的最好的结果铺平道路。
5·When Barnum looked back on his youth, he admitted that he never liked hard work. Instead, he was more interested in trying to make money from having fun.
当巴纳姆回顾起年少岁月时，他坦承自己从不喜欢辛苦的工作。他反而对试图从玩乐中赚钱更感兴趣。