1·Consider calling a domestic violence hot line for advice and creating a plan to leave your abuser.
考虑一下拨打家庭暴力热线以寻求建议，并且制作一个计划离开你的施虐者。
2·The National Domestic Violence website warns users to use a safe computer not accessible to the abuser as computer usage can be monitored quite easily. The website has many resources.
国家家暴网站提醒用户要使用一台施虐者无法进入的安全电脑，电脑的使用是很容易被监测得到的因为该网站有很多信息资源。
3·In our book, and according to most definitions, that's an abuser!
在我们的书，并根据大多数定义，这是一个施虐者！
4·Remember, an abuser's goal is to control you, and he will frequently hurt you to do that.
请记住，一个施虐者的目标是控制你，他会经常伤害你这样做。