JennyWang“为什么要替别人考虑Why consider others我也没见过几个为我考虑的I haven't seen many people considering me either善解人意是什么东西What is understanding委屈自己让你开心吗”Does wronging oneself make you happy越来越觉得“善解人意”这个词并不是褒义I increasingly feel that the term "understanding" is not a positive connotation在某种意义上意味着牺牲自我的感受In a sense, it means sacrificing one's own feelings因为你的“善解人意”Because of your understanding你愿意迁就,愿意妥协,愿意顺从You are willing to accommodate, compromise, and comply...