JennyWang“为什么要替别人考虑Why consider others我也没见过几个为我考虑的I haven't seen many people considering me either善解人意是什么东西What is understanding委屈自己让你开心吗”Does wronging oneself make you happy越来越觉得“善解人意”这个词并不是褒义I increasingly feel that the term "understanding" is not a positive connotation在某种意义上意味着牺牲自我的感受In a sense, it means sacrificing one's own feelings因为你的“善解人意”Because of your understanding你愿意迁就，愿意妥协，愿意顺从You are willing to accommodate, compromise, and comply你处处为他人着想You always think of others时刻照顾着他人的感受Always take care of the feelings of others你不忍心在别人提出无理要求时说“不”You can't bear to say "no" when others make unreasonable demands拒绝别人却又心怀愧疚Refusing others while feeling guilty总是担心会给别人造成麻烦Always worried about causing trouble for others在提出意见时善意而委婉Be kind and tactful when expressing opinions所有委屈都自己吞All grievances are swallowed by yourself所有不理解都自己扛All misunderstandings are borne by yourself可是你真的开心吗But are you really happy?当有一天你突然自我意识觉醒When one day you suddenly awaken your self‑awareness提出异议Raise objections他们就会觉得你变了They will feel that you have changed很多时候“我希望你懂事点”Many times, I hope you are more sensible其实是“我希望你变得更合我的心意”Actually, it's "I hope you become more in line with my heart"你的“善解人意”根本得不到在乎和珍惜Your understanding is not valued or cherished at all你还会一如既往逞强吗Will you continue to show off your strength as always?宁愿当个坏人I would rather be a bad person不去在乎太多想法Don't care too much about other people's thoughts多为自己考虑一下Think more about yourself你会发现其实更轻松You will find that it is actually easier“不，我不想”"No, I don't want to"“不，我不要”"No, I don't want it"“不，我帮不了你”"No, I can't help you"不必那么“善解人意”Don't be so understanding让自己更酷Make yourself cooler! 北京·碧水庄园A区