1·Issue an ultimatum — but be prepared to lose your friends.
发最后通牒，不过你要准备好失去你的朋友。
2·If your partner appears to want to issue some kind of ultimatum today, then the best thing you can do is pretend that you haven't heard.
如果今天你的伴侣意图发出某种最后通牒，最好的办法就是假装你没听见。